This is exciting, our first blog post!
Let's chat about community. What does it really mean and how do we cultivate it well?
As a Christ-following adult in this world I crave meaningful & authentic interactions which are few and far between these days. There are many definitions of the word community in our society. I am a person of observation that has found time and time again that most of us, including myself, spend time with people who are likeminded, partake in the same activities, or are in a similar season of life. Am I right?
Take a look at the people at this coffee shop...each one doing their own thing on their own computers and phones. Not one connecting with the living being that is sitting right next to them. We've all done this at least once in our lives so I am not pointing any fingers.
In the Bible there are many references that can be learned about community that teaches us the opposite of what the world shows us. In Romans 4 it reads “For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in christ, and individually members one of another. Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them…” and it goes on to list the many gifts of grace God gives.
I can confidently say that this scripture is emphasizing that the people around us not only have unique gifts, but will differ greatly from one another. If we are honest with ourselves, it is much easier to be around likeminded people. There are less arguments, less tension, and let’s be real, less work.
That being said, I encourage you to branch out from that comfortable space and get to know someone who isn’t like you. Think of every person you meet as if they were an open field with a treasure hidden beneath the surface. All you have to do is search for it and you will find something truly valuable that cannot be purchased or duplicated. Listen to them, put them before yourself, and don’t expect anything in return from them. Then, the longing for a deep and meaningful relationship that you craved will flourish into something beautiful. Trust will grow, communication will lead to vulnerability, honesty will bring dependability...all the things we long for in relationships will be satisfied.
Here at the Remain Co. we want to open up our hearts and our tables to people who crave the same thing. You are WELCOME at our table...anytime. All we have to do is lay ourselves down for the sake of loving someone else. It may, at times, be difficult but with practice becomes second nature. That is where true community can begin.
Love always,
Kel, The Remain Co.
3 comments
This is wonderful. I can’t wait to see the impact The Remain Co. has on the community.
Beautifully written, Kelly!
Loved your blog. Thanks for sharing.